claudia Says: March 19th, 2010 at 8:29 pm I usually let a guy pay first date and wont offer to go dutch unless i dont really like him that much and know i probably dont want to see him again if he immediately accepts and doesnt at least try to be chivalrous will likely seal the deal as it indicates he is either probably also not really got the intention of a second date where u could square things out a bit or if he is then he is simply tight or just not very experienced in how to make a woman feel like a woman lettin him pay gives me chance to say am takin u out next time to let him know i like him if i really like the guy it also puts me in a situation where i can pick a second date where i feel comfortable Also its nice to be treated like a woman sometimes with a bit of good old chivalry when lets face it most women have to be men at work all day we want to be reminded also if a guy cant afford to take u out the first time or at least even offer is it cos hes dating so many girls he simply cant ie hes a player its a massive turn off! And to the guy advising that woman really need to be reminded they are not that special and they need to have their esteem lowered etc bla bla bla yes if u want an insecure girl that has esteem issues which would respond positively to that behaviour i agree is a good strategy but if thats what u r lookin for in a date u probably should ask yourself y and what it says about your own esteem levels https://hackmd.iscpif.fr/s/H1M9aP96lx https://hedge.grin.hu/s/bV85F4KFs https://pad.riot-os.org/s/B0tMQk6qG https://pad.flipdot.org/s/CyLK0MqhB https://pads.jeito.nl/s/osDRMtJwX https://notes.gutocarvalho.net/s/NCI-UKgZk https://hedgedoc.nixfox.ca/s/WfKCInaGJ https://hedgedoc.thegeisers.net/s/or8NC8vhY